I wish I was enough of an authority on the subject of Sociopaths to give sound advice but I feel that everyones experience is unique enough that any advice I give would not fit. My worst fear would be that my advice would make a situation worse for someone. I will say that, if you feel you, or your children are in danger, you need to take action to remove yourself, or your children, from that danger. There are too many stories where someone "hung in there" and someone got seriously hurt.
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they enjoy wasting your time
they enjoy wasting your time
Having spent a yr under the spell of one ! they are pure unfilterd evil,i had no idea to a point, only those little red flags i ignored but there was as your gut feelings tell you something is not right. i had to endure her contact with men who included an ex husband who was being kept quiet (red flag one)as he knew where she had moved to when they divorced he was not to allow his family to know her wherabouts why ? because she had some serious threats against her,which in the early days of my association with her i thought god they do that over divorce ! but you see its what was kept from me and that was her behaviour.on top of this she was in touch with the ex bf(red flag 2) as he had money and in there spree together paid for her to go to paris,also there was a married man (redflag 3) who she had sexual relations with in her teenage yrs,and according to her jumped into bed when each other were without a bed partner,when he got married she kept in touch and went to the trouble of having a tatoo on her side done with his name ! and she was having texts regular with him and a phone call.but as for me yes i was not suspicous in the first 3 months,but got told many times she loved me,but sure enough as time went on she became different very different,i let her borrow money last yr quite an amount but after 3 weeks of having it she decided she no-longer wanted anyone she meant me ..i got told a few yarns/lies i will say this to shorten post she lied about things which most would see as a lie so why bother ! but here is one thing she said which was the brightest flag flapping in the wind and was said only two months after we been together,and an odd night at her house her going cold on me.quote " I DONT WANT TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY-ONES PAIN EVER AGAIN ..STAY ON MY OWN TO THE DAY I DIE ".. so she is aware of her fault then?there was so much more but i would fill 2 pages suffice to say when we split it was her pushing me away no reason she just gave no closure why? but later she said " you have a mind like a diary " yes one which catches a liar out @ " why do you physco analyze things " a big word which i never come across before but she used it.still she admits to have been to a shrink over her very bad ex husband BUT was he bad? that i will never know nor the rest of her statements regarding him,but cruelty comes in buckets so does the harm to us victims. thankyou to all for sharing knowledge.i wish the web of deceit she used could be revealed its an eye opener..
They never let go.you will always be in the back of their sick twisted minds as an object to be tormented when they get bored..........
trisha..
you are not wrong at all..boredom is the one ! and the new man in her life ! well give him a yr ,then off she goes again shes 48yrs old i guess when she old and withered she may just stop!
thanks for reply.
Andy,l am an expert on sociopaths,from nieve victim to extensive research,they never let go of you,these deranged creeps have an endless list victims who they torment at any time for their own twisted entertainment,you must research deeply,they act above the law,match them you can not become a sociopath they are born that way,I know it is against you're moral code but it is so satisfying to make them wonder what just happened.don't break any laws,go for it.......... have at least a little revenge fun.........
i have started a blog about my tragic experience of falling in love with a sociopath, http://ryokomigaki.info
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